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Sometimes being single has its perks... especially not giving a shit about a guy you told you wanted to go out with, tells you he wants to wait until he has a job, then changes his status to "in a relationship" in the last month...

 

Yup, don't give a f***, and it's good.  :3

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I sense alot of bitterness. How is it the recently divorced guy (she had an affair) less bitter than you guys/gals?

 

I guess youth has its disadvantages :)

 

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I also like how youth automatically = bitter on Valentine's day.

 

I'm going to bed now.


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Valentines Day is overrated, just like Christmas. It's just a way to get guys to buy expensive bouquets or chocolates just to impress the girl, and this one holiday just has fictitious values placed on relationships. I knew some girls who were like "if my bf doesn't get me a v-day gift, I guess he doesn't love me" that silly pick the petals notion of "he loves me, he loves me not..." it puts a problematic systematic view on how love should work.

 

I won't say it's entirely bad, but it isn't always a good holiday, and love should be unscheduled. Valentines day makes love scheduled, and it puts pressure on people who are honest lovers who, when give a gift on Valentines Day, can't really do it on their own time where it would be a hell of a lot more meaningful. V-day makes it scheduled in a way that, when an honest lover DOES express his/her love, it doesn't hold the same surprise value because it's so scheduled.

 

Really stupid holiday.

 

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Sometimes being single has its perks... especially not giving a shit about a guy you told you wanted to go out with, tells you he wants to wait until he has a job, then changes his status to "in a relationship" in the  last month...

I'm sorry that happened :( I'm sure you'll find men out there who are candid.

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Valentines Day is overrated, just like Christmas. It's just a way to get guys to buy expensive bouquets or chocolates just to impress the girl, and this one holiday just has fictitious values placed on relationships. I knew some girls who were like "if my bf doesn't get me a v-day gift, I guess he doesn't love me" that silly pick the petals notion of "he loves me, he loves me not..." it puts a problematic systematic view on how love should work.

 

I won't say it's entirely bad, but it isn't always a good holiday, and love should be unscheduled. Valentines day makes love scheduled, and it puts pressure on people who are honest lovers who, when give a gift on Valentines Day, can't really do it on their own time where it would be a hell of a lot more meaningful. V-day makes it scheduled in a way that, when an honest lover DOES express his/her love, it doesn't hold the same surprise value because it's so scheduled.

I'm in a relationship and I do agree with this!! Me and my girlfriend hate "scheduled" love... spontaneous heaty moments are best ;P Ehem.

 

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Then again, Valentine's Day is my anniversary... heh. It was still a good day for me :)

 

And haddockd: I obviously don't have any place telling you this because I've probably never felt the feelings you had for that particular woman but... you'll make it!

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